huh duh buh whUH? DUUUDE. I know you’re feeling shitty about this and all, but you totally deserve a high five. Seriously. But I mean if you’re not dating either of the hers then I wouldn’t call it betrayal in any way. Of course, not everyone sees the same way I do, so I guess that’s up to a sua Querida
I sometimes wonder what the hell kind of swag energy anomaly I must be to have all this ironic “luck” with women…
So I read about your encounter with this girl, and though I don't know you personally, I wanted to jump in. It sounds like you've done nothing wrong, so you might want to examine the reasons why you're upset and consider their validity. Is the moral code you've supposedly transgressed worth it? Sounds to me like you had a lovely time with a woman (whose sexuality means nothing; it's never set in stone), and this girl you should be dating has you in the friendzone so its not like you betrayed her
The moral code is my identity. The encounter was in itself not worth it, entirely meaningless. Although I got what I wanted, no part of the encounter was what I’d call enjoyable. I’m friend-zoned by American standards. In her culture, I’m still in the running. And in my culture, friend-zone is irrelevant- she either wants you or she doesn’t and I’ve asked her this and she’s yet to say “I don’t want you”
ok, if that’s the way it is, haha. oh well, I don’t think it’s a shameful thing to say you’ve done sexual things. well, if your girlfriend is okay with it, anyway. you didn’t really specify what her reaction to everything was.
That’s the thing, I don’t have a girlfriend. I care about Minha Querida very much and she also cares about me, and we kiss, and we’re close, and she’s my best friend, but we aren’t dating (hell, i say that we totally should be!). But she is the closest thing to a girl friend I have and she’s confused because 1. this is really out of character and 2. the girl I did this with is a lesbian.
YOU ARE SPENDING TIME WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE THE MOST. AFTER YEARS OF BEING TOGETHER YOU FIND YOURSELF NOT ONLY ADORING THEM TO BITS BUT ALSO FALLING IN LOVE WITH THEM….. YOU TELL THEM AND THEY CONFESS THEY FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU. DAYS GO BY AND YOU ARE HTE HAPPIEST YOU’VE EVER BEEN.. …. ONE NIGHT YOU ARE TELLING THEM HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU AND YOU BOTH DECIDE TO MAKE LOVE. YOU ARE BOTH NERVOUS BUT NOTHING HAS EVER FELT MORE RIGHT. THEY ARE KISSING YOUR SHOULDERS AND JUST AS YOU ARE ABOUT TO TELL THEM YOU THINK THEY ARE YOUR SOULMATE THEY HEAVE THEIR HEAD AND SCREAM LOVINGLY INTO YOUR EAR
Well, my daddy always told me that when that happened, it meant that she was ready for the Hulk Thrust.